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full bellies | warm welcomes
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Today we remember the life and legacy of Martin Luther King, Jr., but also it’s an opportunity to honor the incredible sacrifice so many people of color and their allies made to bring us closer to equal justice under the law.
Our food, an aspect of our culture that all southerners point to when defining our region, also served as a dividing line for much of our history. For too long, racism kept white southerners from having black southerners share their meals at the table, even though they were almost certainly cooking and serving them.
This is the fraught legacy of southern food.
Our food is nourishing, it holds memories, it brings people together, it reminds us of home and family, yet its legacy, like everything else in the south, is tainted with the stains of oppression and segregation. I think the young people who sat at the counter that day in Greensboro knew the power of food, the power of sharing a meal with others, and how our identities are shaped by what and how we eat. They knew that food can bring us together even while other things tear us apart. I take heart knowing that eating together at the table is one of the most integral traditions in our region, but know that in order to reach King’s idea of the Beloved Community, our food must be shared and eaten together across our lines of difference. I hope that Mess of Greens gives me a chance to share my attempts as a white woman to confront our shared history and be honest about it, while bringing people together to eat and look to the future.
We can’t look ahead before we look back, though. It isn’t pretty, y’all, but if we’re honest – if we take a hard, real look at where we’ve been and what role we’ve played and are playing in the south’s own mess – we can make change.
Happy Martin Luther King, Jr. Day.
I’ve also been looking for new ways to get my little to eat vegetables, because my standard tricks of roasting or giving him a dipping sauce or covering them in cheese weren’t working anymore. I needed to up my game. So, recently I thought I’d kill two birds with one stone and make a BEP-based veggie burger that is fit for a toddler (but also delicious for grown-ups). This wasn’t ALL fun and games as I ended up having to do some modifications after the first taste test (have you ever had a mashed potato burger? no? well, I don’t recommend it.) But NOW, I’ve got a recipe where the flavors just knocked my socks off, and my little guy LOVED the burger and nearly ate all of it. My honey (a carnivore all the way) even had thirds.
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Are y’all watching the National Football Championship?!?
ermm.. probably not if you’re reading MoG, but YOU SHOULD BE if you’re a real southerner. I mean Clemson AND Alabama? C’mon.
As a born-and-raised Mississippi girl, I’ve gotta cheer for the SEC tonight (ROLL TIDE!) but my honey is a ACC guy all the way. Tonight would probably be contentious except I really only watch football as a social thing. (I am like 90% sure that a bunch of other southerners feel the same way but are too scared of the super intense football fans to say so. But I’ll say it. “Meh.”)
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What you do:
See? It’s SO easy once everything has cooled. However, don’t throw this down your sink. Make sure to put the fat in a plastic bag or jar so that it doesn’t clog up all of your pipes.
You’ll be left with a gorgeous colored gelatin that can be frozen OR used immediately in your soups, stews, or other recipes. it’s SO cheap to make, especially if you’ve been saving your vegetable odds-and-ends in a plastic bag in the freezer. Also, don’t be alarmed about the gelatinous texture… once you heat it up it’ll turn back into a liquid.
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My friend Matty & his wife Suzette live in a precious Mississippi Delta town called Cleveland, home to Delta State University and probably fifteen-thousand people. They’re entrepreneurs, and advocates for education and the community, and generally all-around fun people. They LOVE Cleveland, but Matty’s one complaint (until a year or so ago) was that if you wanted brunch on a weekend, you had to drive 2 hours to Memphis or Jackson. Let’s be honest here.. no matter how awesome a rural community’s food culture is, brunch is the ONE meal that small town versions of dives, restaurants, and clubs just CAN’T often compete with their big-city counterparts…even in the south. Which means that if you live in a smaller town, and like to entertain, hosting a brunch for your friends rather than a dinner party is always a super great idea. Still not sure? Let me sell you…
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